It’s not an easy thing to talk about: all of this violence happening to police and to the people they are sworn to protect. The truth is that none of this should be happening, and we shouldn’t have to talk about it at all. Or rather, I wish that we didn’t need to talk about it anymore. As a human I watch the news and sometimes cannot bear what I see. As someone who works with awareness products for a living, I feel exactly the same way.
The understanding that doctors and scientists all over the world are working each and every day to improve and remove the likes of diseases such as cancer, diabetes, arthritis, and Lyme disease (to name but a few) makes wearing a pink breast cancer ribbon, or a red heart disease ribbon, feel hopeful, as well as a way to honor those who have been taken from us. But when I see requests flowing in for awareness ribbons to remember young black men who were killed during routine traffic stops, or the horror that was Dallas last week… it’s almost too much to take.
Our business is built on recognizing and inspiring change with products like memorial pins and bracelets and the like. But I don’t think there’s a single person here at PinMart that wouldn’t gladly give up all of the orders that come in after tragedies like Sandy Hook, 9/11, or the Dallas massacre. I would like nothing more than to never see a black awareness ribbon pin, or a heart with “Remember…”, ever again.
But we’re not there yet. This world is full of the painfully beautiful and the just plain painful, and you can’t, as yet, have one without the other. But that doesn’t mean we should turn off and shut down. It’s time to renew our faith in our fellow man, to be kind to strangers, and to be cautious about labels and stereotypes. And not having to put together another order for a memorial service for someone who’s life was cut short… that matters.
Here’s to doing everything we can to be our very best, most compassionate, patient selves. Here’s to kindness. And here’s to crazy cat lady pins, and avocado pins, and snow cones and martini glass pins. To pins that make us smile.